Allen’s car is old. And has lived a rough life. The 2009 Honda has definitely seen better days and is now the bane of our mechanic’s existence. But change is hard for Allen. If he’s reluctant to wear a new shirt, think of how reluctant he will be to get rid of his car?
With Allen, though, I take things one step at a time, planting the seed of an idea, patiently waiting, then bringing it up again. Since the addition of a $500 solar panel back in November that continues to charge his new $200 battery, I’ve been planting enough seeds to grow an orchard.
With retirement on the horizon, the time seems right to update my own 2011 Nissan Rogue and pass it to Allen. Casually, I mentioned it on Saturday. And, much to my surprise, he said, “Well, okay. I wouldn’t mind driving your car.” (CODE for “Gee, Mom, I’m really excited about having your SUV! Thanks so much!”)
Creature of habit that he is, Allen hasn’t had a lot of practice driving my car. In fact, just two summers ago we had to reinforce his driving skills when he lost his confidence.
Which brings me to Reason 64 for retiring. Giving Allen more time to practice driving my car before we make the transition. Since he tends to drive in a style best known as “Mr Toad’s Wild Ride”, I should invest in Tylenol.
I had either the good fortune or the bad luck to teach all three of my offspring to drive. I actually drew the long straw on teaching Allen, but after one lesson with his dad, Allen said, “Dad yells too much. You teach me.”
Have you taught anyone to drive? How did you learn?
I'm a bit like Allen. I tend to get very comfortable with the things I have and prefer to keep them. I'm still happily driving my 2010 Corolla. Keep us posted on your car upgrades.