My son isn’t able to drive, but he often appears stressed in the passenger seat, especially when I’m not in the lane he knows I need to be in to make the next turn. I try to explain to him that I’m watching the cars around and behind me but he doesn’t quite get it (he only looks forward, I think). He also (I think) gets songs repeating in his head, and Allen’s experience makes me curious if there are certain songs for my son that are invasive, especially during times he’s trying to focus. I’m glad Allen is able to drive (& pull over when that’s needed,too!)
Allen did regain his confidence in driving. Some people on the spectrum choose not to drive and that's alright as well. There are a LOT of things to remember and many sensory inputs, even for a passenger.
I was born with ink in my veins. Writing is my joy. Thanks for the encouragement! (And I don't publish daily. I post things on the calendar on the weekends and, like magic, they hit your inbox on the right date!)
WOW! Your patience and love shine through again. Just knowing what’s going on and then learning what’s happening from the professionals is fascinating. It gives us, your readers, more information and understanding. For people around you it should help them to know how to pray for you and Allen. I marvel at you and you know I love Allen. To conquer what he has is a miracle of sorts!
Allen is my daily miracle. I am blessed to still have him with me. And, as you know, I want others who parent an adult on the spectrum to gain some encouragement from my life with Allen.
My son isn’t able to drive, but he often appears stressed in the passenger seat, especially when I’m not in the lane he knows I need to be in to make the next turn. I try to explain to him that I’m watching the cars around and behind me but he doesn’t quite get it (he only looks forward, I think). He also (I think) gets songs repeating in his head, and Allen’s experience makes me curious if there are certain songs for my son that are invasive, especially during times he’s trying to focus. I’m glad Allen is able to drive (& pull over when that’s needed,too!)
Allen did regain his confidence in driving. Some people on the spectrum choose not to drive and that's alright as well. There are a LOT of things to remember and many sensory inputs, even for a passenger.
That was an excellent ‘write.’
I’m amazed that you can work full time and still publish on Substack daily. You’re an inspiration to this ‘wanna be.’
I was born with ink in my veins. Writing is my joy. Thanks for the encouragement! (And I don't publish daily. I post things on the calendar on the weekends and, like magic, they hit your inbox on the right date!)
WOW! Your patience and love shine through again. Just knowing what’s going on and then learning what’s happening from the professionals is fascinating. It gives us, your readers, more information and understanding. For people around you it should help them to know how to pray for you and Allen. I marvel at you and you know I love Allen. To conquer what he has is a miracle of sorts!
Allen is my daily miracle. I am blessed to still have him with me. And, as you know, I want others who parent an adult on the spectrum to gain some encouragement from my life with Allen.